Search for Local Black Christian Singles in Durham

I LOVE sports especially basketball and football! I am a devoted and loyal Tar Heel alum! I like to spend time with family and friends doing just about anything. I like board and card games, bowling, reading, and listening to music. Serving God and the Kingdom is my first passion. Life is short and I don't believe in wasting my time on grudges, immaturity, and drama. I have a pretty serious, high stress job so I like to relax and enjoy life when I can.

I’m not used to talking about myself so I asked a friend to tell you about me. This is what he said….



Belinda has established herself in her chosen profession, one that requires a graduate degree and a license to enter. As for her occupation, I’ll let her tell you about it because it is one that is widely misunderstood. But I will tell you this: within her profession hers is a job that perhaps 1 in 100 can do well. And she does it very well.

Now Belinda is ready to pursue her next goal. If you have no idea what that might be, you’re probably not the one. Belinda wants to find a good man and get married. She doesn’t want a “first” marriage. She wants a marriage that is enduring, like that between her own parents (45 years and counting), and based upon traditional Christian values.

One of those values is that having and raising children is best done within marriage, and children are a blessing to a marriage. If the thought of teaching your child to ride a bicycle does not bring a smile to your face, you’re probably not the one. Belinda wants her children to have a father like her father, loving and dedicated. If meeting such a standard intimidates you, you’re probably not the one.

I love & live life drama free! I have not always been in Gods will, but I have learned from my blunders. There is no "perfect Christian, " but I want to continue to strive towards that completed journey. I also believe we, as Christians should not use the "I'm not perfect" card as a crutch to act up and be foolish. I deeply regret not activating my faith much earlier, but one should never look back to long on the blunders in their lives. This just gives the enemy a chance to seep in so you won't take the time to allow God to heal you. I am passionate and attentive to the right partner. I am fun-loving, but I must admit, I have mellowed as I have become older. I am learning not to procrastinate as much as I did in my youth...let me be honest. I am still working on that one! I love to talk, and I love to listen I love to hear, and I love to be heard. Most importantly; I want to LIKE someone, not just love, or be "in-love" with them. I want them to LIKE me in return. I want to giggle like a kid when I think about them, and want them to get all goofy inside when they think about me.

Life is a great adventure. I am passionate, friendly, kind, loving and peaceful. I love to learn, travel and am industrious. I am family oriented. A am a good listener.

I am a nice person with good manners, faithful, like to have fun, responsible, a hard worker, believe in Jesus, and I am a honest person.

I have a big understanding heart,

I do want to share that I did not expect that it wouldtake as much time to try and connect with that right someone. I like many of you am done with the "game-playing " and really just looking for some companionship. someone that I can relate to intellectually, spirtually and playfully. I like to travel and have visited several countries abroad. I spent a semester in Italy ( although I hardly speak and italian). love to read. I play the piano very well, and enjoy the arts and music equally. I am still currently working and hope to retire in the upcoming year.
I am a caring person, who loves to laugh at life and at myself. I try not to take things too seriously. Life is short and is to be enjoyed.like good food, good wine and great ambiance.

I am currently in the process of enlisting in the air force reserve and I do have a very good head on my shoulders, I am also looking to obtain my nursing degree while serving I only have two yrs left for that! I am down to earth, confident, smart, and enjoying life (well trying to anyway)!!!! And at the time I am only looking for friends to converse with!

I have a loving personality, Im a very good cook at my job, hopefully if its Gods will I can open my own restaurant

I will tell you later!!!

Musician, music lover who is honest. I love to travel love art of all kinds(museums, music, dance, theatre etc.) I am thoughtful, passionate, intelligent and a hopeless romantic. I love going for walks, museums and bookstores:-), church, spending time with my family and friends, movies, baking, live music and concerts, some things in nature(I'm scared of snakes and spiders, lol), whole foods, Walmart(HappyMart) and just life in general!

God has blessed me by allowing me to complete many visions that he has given me. All of my endeavors have involved improving the quality of life for children and families. That has always been important to me. I am a very positive person and believe that you have not because you ask not and that whatever your mind can conceive and believe you will achieve.

What I love most about me , is being me, I love God for making me the person that I am today. I'm a very down to earth person , with a warm heart and a great personality to go with it. I work hard, take care of my love ones and I really just love enjoying my life.I can be serious when I need to be , but when I smile , I make other people smile. I love to travel and going to different sites and placesand meeting new people. I always stay positive and most of all I try to put a smile on my face and somebody elses.

I'm a person that loves people and to make them smile. I love traveling and dancing. I love spending time with family and very involved in the community. I am often told to slow down and everytime I try to eliminate things I find myself back involved.I have always loved to dance. When I first got saved and up to 10 years ago I was always in the dance ministry. Now that I try to find ways to keep excercising fun I have a new passion for soul line dancing.

I'm out going. Love to travel locally, nationally and internationally. I am talkative. Communication is important to me. Enjoy long walks, movies, crossword puzzles and jigsaw puzzles, trying new things and different twists on past experiences. I exercise 3 times a week but love to eat. Two children in college one in high school. I've been separated for three years. I will be officially divorced in July 2013!

I'm down to earth caring , loving , honest WORK AND PLAY HARD . love to meet new people go new places and do new things out going and most of all I keep it real ....

In this world today, sometimes less is more. I am a humble man and I learned that the hard way. I want to make some woman my Queen and fulfill her deepest desires or at least give it one heck of a try. I am Blessed.

I'm a college educated gentleman, will soon earn a Master of Science Degree in Homeland Security. I'm a military gentleman, trained on the enlisted and officer sides. I'm passionate, romantic, and loving with the right lady. My lady is treated with respect; she is given massages and cuddled on an even pace. She is given as much affection that she can take from me. I'm good with animals, I love dogs the working type not the toy type. I adore children, especially babies. A baby can teach you a lot about yourself.

I am a native New Yorker, moved to Los Angeles in the 80's and lived there until I moved to NC over 4 years ago. I love to dance (salsa, caribbean, ballroom), walk on the beach, watch the sunset, listen to music (smooth jazz, gospel, easy listening, Arthur Prysock, The Whispers, Stevie Wonder, Tom Scott, Earl Klugh, Marvin Gay, Nancy Wilson, Tito Puente, Sade, Mongo Santamaria, Los Lonely Boys, Diana Krall, Basia, Barbara Streisand, Bette Midler, Eva Cassidy and the list goes on forever. I enjoy fine dining as well as a picnic in the park and anything in between. I watch specific tv shows, and not a lot. Love to watch basketball and tennis. I love to travel, and have actually used my passport...Paris, Hawaii, all over the Caribbean, and have driven from coast to coast. I love to meet people of all walks of life, socialize, entertain, be entertained. Laughter is essential. I hear the birds and notice the beauty of nature and love the ocean. I believe in spiritual wholeness, embrace the God consciousness in everyone I meet. I am a communicator...I try to say what I mean, and mean what I say and when I'm not sure, I try to remember to say so. I'm comfortable with who I am becoming, where I've been, curious about the future, and I

Here to meet a friend. Then by his grace, I will be married to the love of my life. But I believe you should be friends first before you can think of being anything more. I'm a fun loving down to earth lady. I'm not a girly girl but I have been told I can run with the best of them if I wanted to. I can be a loner at times and more of a listener then talker. Just depends on my mood. But I love to laugh and I love life. I believe with God first anything is possible.