In A Nutshell
God-fearing.and very active in my church. Believe the man is the head but not a controller. Love basketball and football. I like both sports pretty much the same. I, also, workout 4 to 5 days a week. I follow DeMatha basketball and football extensively. Family-oriented - like to invite family over once a month and will gladly include your family, too. I love to cook and once you taste my macaroni and cheese, you will not want any cooked by anyone else. After God, my mate is the foremost person in my life and I expect to be the same with him. I do not believe you always have to have money to have a good time. Just you and me enjoying each other can be enough sometimes. I am not resistant to change as compromise is sometimes necessary, but I will not settle just to have a man in my life.
The One I Am Looking For
Long term relationship with man who is not afraid to communicate. Understands that issues cannot be resolved if you do not talk about them. Must understand God's order: God first, your mate second, children and others are third. I am not "high maintenance" but am "highly needy" which means I am a hopeless romantic, so I want someone who will pay attention to me and who loves to kiss and cuddle. I do not need things from you, but I do need physical attention. I do want you to buy me things for birthdays, holidays, or just a surprise every now and then, but you being there to hold me is more important. Understanding that I need "me time" with my girlfriends and you need "me time" with the "fellas" is important as long as you understand that our relationship is foremost. If you are just separated, legal or otherwise, I consider you as married and not available to me.
I'd Just Like to Add
If your grown kids live at home and are dependent on you, do not contact me. You must not be afraid to let the bird(s) out of the nest. My children are grown and independent and it is now my time to enjoy life and "grow old" with my significant other without the interference of the financial needs of grown children. I really do not care for animals. Will tolerate a dog but have a strong dislike for cats. If you smoke or drink, I am not interested. I do not eat pork or red meat, but will not have a problem with it if you do. I am a shoes fanatic, so I do not need someone who will complain about the amount of shoes I have. I will not ask you to buy them for me as I can do that for myself. I will delete all profiles with no picture. You must list info in the greeting, personality and personal area. I will not accept "will tell you later." Recent health mobility issues have slowed me down a bit, but I am up and about.
Q. Do you enjoy cooking?
A. I really enjoy cooking
Q. How patient do you consider yourself?
A. A little patient
Q. Are you romantic?
A. Extremely romantic
Q. How punctual are you typically?
A. Always on time
Q. Do you enjoy going to the movies?
A. Enjoy it
Q. How much do you enjoy going to live theatre?
A. Enjoy it
Q. How much do you like reading?
A. I enjoy it